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I spent most of April exploring ADHD issues with finishing projects and why we seem to collect them like free fifty dollar bills. Let me know what you think of the series. Finishing it nearly killed me, but I fortunately gnawed off my foot to keep in focus and finish the project series to the end.










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Byword, the ADHD Friendly Text Editor

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Off the Shelf: “Everything Is Fine” by Ann Dee Ellis

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I loved how this book was written. Such crisp prose. Sparse, yet intimate, with a clear and strong voice. “Everything Is Fine” was written from the point of view of Mazzy, a young preteen who is coping with family tragedy. Her father is away on a new job, though one is given the feeling he is avoiding the drama at home. Her mother is a shell of her former self. Finding out what destroyed her is part of the mystery of the book. Much like the peeling away of a lettuce, the story is told in parts. Some take place in the past, some in the present. Some relate to the tragedy, some give us a window inside the mind of this traumatized girl. I felt the issues of depression were dealt with quite believably. I had a dark period in my life—never as catatonic as Mazzy’s mother but just as dysfunctional. The rest of the family really does need to pick up the slack. Some neighbors offered support and others cruel advice. This book was spot on. I believe it is a credit to Ellis’ writing that I ...
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